subconsciously

Although Olga loved Jack, that image of wifehood (hers, not his) was so noxious that subconsciously she knew she couldn't sustain it.

虽然OlgaJack,但这种（她产生而不他产生的）妻子形象太有毒害性，以至于在里自己知道无法维系下去。

In choosing a partner we are subconsciously assessing their evolutionary fitness to be a mother of children or father provider and protector.

在选择伴侣的时候，我们在里衡量对方将来称职的母亲或者父亲，合格的一家之主。