He is not a special friend of mine.

不是我的挚。

While both men and women have such friends, evidence is accum-ulating that indicates men ralely make close friends.

尽管男人和女人都有这样一些朋，但越来越多的迹象表明，男人不容易交上挚。

Good friends avoid to let her friend to feel herself humiliatory,great friends pretend nothing happened in the first place.

好朋避免让自己的朋感觉到她自己丢脸了，而挚则要假装什么都没有发生。